What are my rights if a staff member outs me?

One of the examples that the code of conduct gives around behaviour that teachers should not engage in is disclosing a student's personal or confidential information beyond those who have a legitimate need to know (see page 11 at https://educationcouncil.org.nz/sites/default/files/Code%20Guidance%20FINAL.pdf).   

Although the Code does not set out concrete rules, a complaint may be made on the basis that disclosing a student's personal or confidential information beyond those with a legitimate need to know is behaviour that falls short of the sort of conduct expected of a teacher.  Depending on the situation, this may also constitute a breach of the Privacy Act.

If you’re unsure, it could be helpful to contact your local community law centre, such as YouthLaw to discuss your situation and get advice.